Hello to all and to all a good afternoon!!! I hope all of you are having the most gorgeous day and are all feeling so damn confident about yourselves because that’s what we like to do around here (-: I’m blogging today because 1) I haven’t in a while and 2) I wanted to chit chat with you all about something I feel will be very beneficial to all of my college lil’ bebes. As you know, college is a stressful a$$ time. It’s a dark, dark place LOL. I mean we are constantly trying to figure out our purpose in life. Our degree switches multiple times and we tend to feel lost in our direction in life. But, what is our end goal? TO BE SUCCESSFUL! Am I right?! Now, I want you all to stop and think about this for a second… What do you feel is preventing you from being happy & driven towards meeting those goals? Now, also think about this… do you think it may be the people you surround yourself with? Ask me how many “friends” I have gone through in the past years… A LOT! Now, I know you may be thinking that this is a bad thing, but I’m going to tell you right now that it is not necessarily a bad thing. Throughout life, we are constantly being exposed to new relationships in order to figure out what traits we are looking for in friendships.
Have you ever heard the saying, “Your vibe attracts your tribe?” Well ya’ll need to superglue that into your brain! That quote is so significant and should honestly be hanging on everyone of your refrigerators….no joke… You hear me preaching every day to surround yourself with positive people. Why? Because it will help you progress in every way possible throughout life. There will be so many people who visit you throughout life and many that leave your life because they simply aren’t meant to be there. And, there will be many people that hate to see you gleam of happiness, because of one thing… Jealousy. They are jealous because you are on a different journey than them. Stop and think about that for a second. Do you have anyone in your life who you feel is not benefiting you and your journey? Anyone who you feel is in your life for short term and not long term? Anyone who you feel is absolutely exhausting to try to keep around? I have had SO many “friends” talk about how they don’t believe that I will succeed.. BEHIND MY BACK.. and I’m here to do one thing. PROVE THEM WRONG and SO SHOULD YOU! If they aint yelling at you because your being negative or pushing you to succeed, they aint worth keeping around. There will be negative people all around you but, are we going to allow their negativity to hold us back from creating the best versions of ourselves? Most certainly NOT! Your biggest weapon is confidence…. So use it (-:
Now, I have switched schools’ numerous times and have gone through so many friendships that were simply not meant to be. Was I upset at the time? Yes. Am I upset now? No. Those friendships were lessons to me. Lessons that have taught me to surround myself with people who cause me to shine and vice versa! I now have a very select group of friends who I hold a very special place in my heart, and I couldn’t be more grateful to have them throughout my journey. I mean they literally tell me when I’m being a negative lil’ b**** and I friggin’ LOVE IT! I try to be the most positive thing in the world, and they help me radiate positivity even when I’m down! Those are the friends YOU NEED! Friends who push you to be the best version of YOU should be kept!
PS ~ Please forgive the lack of blogs lately… I can’t decide if I enjoy blogging or vlogging more! What do you think?
PSS~ Have a great rest of your day and let’s not forget to radiate positive vibez!